Why Fear Failure? Instead, Call It Education!
The Commitment: Fight back! Why fear failure? Stop caring what others think! Neutralize your fears.
The Questions: If thoughts are many times not truth…Isn’t it time to be your mind’s master? Why let thoughts hold us back? Make this one special life count.
Daily Decisions can make life better. Make a conscious decision to distract and overwrite those fears. Pay attention to what’s really happening; fight the impulse to give in or run away.
Think about this: Why self-limit and wind up with regrets later on, sabotaging and defeating yourself before starting? Practice: Train the mind to fight through worry, doubt and any other painful miserable obstacle the brain thinks up…whether made up or real. Instead, be your mind’s master.
The Takeaway: Aha: Take the emphasis off of yourself. Stop being the center of your attention. We are responsible for our own accomplishments and best life - like it or not it takes work.
“Success is the ability to go from failure to failure without losing enthusiasm.” ~Churchill
Self-promise: Let no judgement infiltrate either from ourselves or others. Rename failure; call it education.
I have not failed. I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work. ~Thomas Edison
Activity to reinforce limiting fear (not letting it control you), to better focus on what’s important. Make an I am not my fears list. Column 1: Write down your fears and keep track. Column 2: Note if they happen or not. Column 3: Write down your dreams and what you want to accomplish. Column 4: Keep track of your progress. Writing things down, putting in effort gives you a better chance to rid what’s in the way and make progress.
Things to remember to keep your mind positive and squash the fear of failure.
Fear is only as deep as the mind allows. ~Japanese proverb.
#1: Think Positively & tap into courage: It’s difficult and takes discipline but necessary to enjoy more. Attitude is key It begins with a positive mindset and self-belief.
#2 : Make a first step – visualize accomplishing your goals and dreams. One step at a time…start with an easy win and build up to bigger ones!
#3: Put down your foot to perfectionism . Do the best you can! Stop self-questioning and beating yourself up.
Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one’s courage.” ~Anais Nin
Here are some simple quick ideas (strategies) to distract from limiting the chances to live a best life!
Please share any of yours in the comments, or simply email me. deborah@thedailydecisions.com
Every day is a new beginning. Create a vacuum – don’t let negative thoughts penetrate. Instead focus on learning, growing and elevating. Fight for the life pictured in your dreams – make them a reality.
#1: Remove the ego…don’t let your thoughts or other peoples’ words keep you trapped. Rid the demons. Make your well-being and life success a priority. Self-Care = Self-Preservation.
#2: Self Confidence to fail forward and keep moving to grab that life prize. I Can! Let go of the baggage and everything else that weighs you down. Stop thinking about negatives and go, go, go tomorrow isn’t promised.
#3: Courage breads success; accomplishment gives strength to keep on going. Lean in with your heart not fears. Be your champion. Ask: What in life is easy? Invite in and build resilience; trust and appreciate yourself.
Change is choice. Don’t ever compromise a life well-lived and shut out opportunity – rise above the fear.
Take responsibility for yourself; let go of self-limiting words, choices and anything else that will sabotage. Positive Attitudes = A Better Outcome! Be your own fearless leader…do life your way. Be your mind’s master!
Here’s a mantra for you: I determine my destiny; no-one else can.
Sending so much Love and Light your way. CREATE YOUR OWN SUNSHINE!
Make these some of The Daily Decisions. Free yourself from what holds you back!
Why fear failure? Instead, rename it education – learn and grow. ~Deborah Mallow
XO, Deborah (Your Ray of Sunshine and Positive Thoughts Whisperer).
Sharing tools to change what inhibits into self-improvement